5 discussions about sex you must have with your partner

Physical intimacy or sex is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Sex undeniably brings you closer. For one to thrive, couples need to work and focus on their sex life as well. However, since this becomes quite difficult at times as couples fail to express their views and needs in the bedroom. Even if you and your partner are open-minded, discussing in-depth about sex becomes quite a task. Especially when you’re worried that you might hurt your partner’s feelings when you’re asking for a change or raising an issue. Regular or weekly discussions keep the relationship happy and exciting. Once you know what your partner exactly means, it’s no puzzle to keep your partner content. If you’re wondering about what to talk about with your partner, consider the following discussion points to ace your sex game.

Sexual Health Discussions

Most couples have this question-when to talk about sexual health with your partner? While there is no definite time, you should definitely talk about this when you’re attracted to your partner and are ready to take it to the next level. Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) are extremely serious and need to be kept in check if any. So, you can casually slip this into a conversation asking your partner the last time they got themselves checked when they were with someone else. But, don’t indulge in any further questions asking who the earlier person is unless you want to reserve that for a different discussion.

Commitment

One’s intentions about the relationships should be clear from day one. There are many who prefer no-strings-attached or casual flings instead of monogamous, serious relationships. In such instances, one often misinterprets that the other is interested in the latter but such confusions only get cleared out when you two sit down to clearly talk about your opinions and views. Assumptions simply based on actions are not right. You need to ask yourself first as well-what kind of a relationship do you want and relay the same to your partner.

Masturbation

We agree, this is entirely a solo act, but it doesn’ hurt if you discuss your preferences with your partner. This topic is considered taboo among many, so it helps if you discuss among yourselves with ease. Imagine walking in on your partner and dying from embarrassment. To prevent, that actively talk about such things and make it light-headed and an easy topic to approach with.

Discussing these parameters of your sex life can improve your communication and understanding as well. What’s best? You both get to have the time of your lives in your room!


Turn-on and turn-offs

This can get a bit uncomfortable. Unless you are the experimenting kind, telling your partner about what excites you and what doesn’t can be uncomfortable. Telling your partner your turn-ons amidst sex can be really exciting but turn-offs can give entirely the opposite effect. Sex can one of the most vulnerable actions for a person so it can be hugely disappointing telling the negatives while doing it. Sit down, prep yourself, and talk calmly about what doesn’t excite you. You can also talk about the number of times or frequency of sex that suits you both.


Fantasy

Fantasies can be alluring and thrilling and are often deep-resided secrets within your heart. Wait no more because sharing your fantasies with your partner can not only satisfy your wants but increase your overall relationship as well. Leave all your judgments aside and look forward to fulfilling each other’s fantasies no matter how high headed or weird they may be. Even if one is super passionate about something and the other isn’t try to compromise on this part.

CC: Research Credit:- Arinzechi Jr II